I think it will turn out okay with time since your parents have to be a constant in your life and your T is a T, doing a job helping you, alongside your life.

I found that as I got older there were lots of overlapping feelings around my parents and feeling and reconciling them in therapy was a big help in making me feel more whole. I hope you get to feeling better as a result of this experience, serafimetal.

Maybe you'll win an award at university T can come to the ceremony for or you can dedicate the first book you write to her or something :-)