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Old Oct 20, 2020, 12:09 PM
MsLady MsLady is offline
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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
What you are 'missing' is that his comment is very sexist..
I agree.

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He seems very immature - expecting all his needs (e.g. cooking, cleaning, mothering him) to be met by you.
I'm not sure where this information is coming from. The post talked about concerns with making dinner and nurturing.

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If you are working and he is at home, the least he could do is pull his weight and take care of the housekeeping etc. There is nothing wrong with that. But again, he seems to want you to do everything and take care of him.
I think he has been (making dinners, at least). Was there another thread about this? I'm confused.

Songbird, can you come up with a dinner schedule so he's not cooking 5/7 days in the week? If he knows you'll be cooking that day, he won't start during the day while you're at work. I'm not sure what your work schedule is like. For example, if you're not home until 6pm, it wouldn't make sense for you to start cooking dinner at that time.