Hello love my new life. There's nothing I can offer with regard to your particular concern. But I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So I thought I would at least welcome you to Psych Central.

Here are links to 5 articles on the subject of children & divorce, from Psych Central's archives, that may be of interest:

Divorce and Child Custody

10 Essentials of Co-Parenting After a Divorce | The Exhausted Woman

How to Co-Parent Successfully after Divorce

10 Essentials of Co-Parenting After a Divorce | The Exhausted Woman

Tools for Parallel Parenting in a High-Conflict Situation

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