I'm on overload. I just had a third interview with a company and am a nervous wreck.

I don't know what to make of the Facebook stuff. I really don't. My husband has good traits too - he can be the most loving, giving and kind person. Everyone who meets him loves him to death. But he has a dark side, too.

And I won't know for a while if I can get past these trust issues.

I called a couples therapist who won't take my case because there's been abuse. He called back and left a message telling me that since there's been abuse, I should just leave. Awesome. He won't even work with us. That's not helpful. I need someone who is willing to work with us.