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Originally Posted by tevelygo
Lol he got the money without having to work for it.
Maybe I'm just more generous than average then though........... And I don't know how to emotionally manipulate like the random woman who easily got 6000 USD off him.
Also. I did get a loan from my uncle before and he wanted an interest rate and that was fine for me (and I paid him back within deadline no problem, I was still able to do it back then).
But I didn't live with my uncle for many years and I didn't sacrifice things for them.
Again, I was not that American woman who easily got 6000 USD off him in just a few months...
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Also you asked about the abuse.
"I was very neglected, already getting very numbed out and shut down living with him"
"It was nothing too dark but it was manipulation and I have not trusted him fully since then. He manipulated me into letting him live with me in my condo again. After I let him come back I had a near psychotic break, I had a complete nervous breakdown. He once woke up, took a look at me, said "you're crazy" and went back to sleep."
I don1t want to copy out more from my original OP.
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I didn't ask about abuse. I stated that I didn't see any abuse in what you said. And I still don't. That said, if you honestly believe you're being abused, leave. It's pretty simple really.
As far as your other comments, you appear to be rejecting @
divine1966 's perspective out of hand because you don't like how it makes you feel. That was a sober, objective dose of reality that you may want to consider taking into account. If this guy doesn't want to share his money with you for free, that's unlikely to change regardless of whether you think he earned it. Maybe you are just more generous than he is; if so, accept it and move on.