Maybe I should let everyone here know of the positives and why I am holding onto some hope here. Maybe that would help?
-He often treats me like a princess. He regularly buys me beautiful fresh flowers because he knows I love flowers, he takes care of me in various ways such as taking care of my car, watching out for my health, cooking dinners for me and taking me out for fine dining meals. He loves to treat me to jewelry, which I love and he knows how much I love that.
-He speaks in the most endearing ways to me every day - he does this cute little thing where he does baby talk with me and he calls me his boo boo.
-We snuggle and cuddle together during the night while we sleep, and when we wake up, we snuggle very close together until we have to get up.
- Every morning before he leaves for work, he kisses me goodbye and tells me he loves me.
- We genuinely enjoy each other's company (when things are smooth and good between us). We laugh together often and have a lot of fun together on the weekends when we have nothing to do or when we go out for fun.
-We enjoy several similar interests and passions.
-We have great sex.
-We generally get along well -- generally speaking.
-We have similar lifestyles.
-We both love each other and we miss each other when we're apart.
Those are many or most of the positives.
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"Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination"
~4 Non Blondes
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