Baby talk and cuddling is great, I love it too, who doesn’t, but why do you think it’s a rarity. I don’t know what type of men you dated before but that’s what people do in romantic relationships. They cuddle and baby talk or do other love talk. How did other men express their affection to you? I am not saying it’s not wonderful. It is. But I just don’t see how it outweighs all other drama as most men in loving relationship will do all those things too AND there will be no drama.

Again of course give it a try with therapy and of course you should try to improve it. I m not saying you should get divorced. I just feel bad for you dealing with that much stress and now it causes you problems with interviewing for a job. Your marriage should be your safe harbor in this job search process. It shouldn’t be additional stress in your life.