.. so I took a peek at your other thread, too.

Maybe I'm not understanding your post title. Are you saying you're hated because these people have their own insecurities and ditch you because you're attractive, smart, talented, and ambitious? I'm going to assume yes and respond with that frame of mind..

Is it possible these people are distancing themselves from you because of what you're subconsciously projecting out? You've mentioned you're socially insecure, and that may likely show.

If you're faking it in order to have "friends" and not feel lonely, then it'll show.. if not right away, eventually. If you're socially anxious, it'll show, too. My guess is, your own behaviours around your own insecurities and anxieties is what's making people uncomfortable around you.. and they may not even know why.

We can have all the beauty, brains, and talent in the world.. but if we lack social skills or the ability to connect with others, we will continue to struggle in life.

We're not just talking about friends, here, either. Our careers bank on our ability to connect. Those are the people who aren't as beautiful, intelligent, or talented.. who get the career advances, pay raises, and credits.. because they possess the skill to "sell".

It sounds like you have a lot of positives going on for you, judging by this post. Be proud of those and stay strong. I'm not a therapist and I may be on the wrong track here.. but my advice to you is to sort through your disconnectedness. I personally doubt people are disappearing from your life because they're jealous.

Try and dig deeper. You have a whole world ahead of you.