He has to describe what he wants: more hugs and kisses, more suggestions when he is hurting., what? More asking about his day, talking about his interests? Id be thrilled if someone held my hand and listened. Who does he know/has known or has seen on TV that gives the kind of nurturing he wants(I know TV is fiction, but this might give you some idea of what he means) He might be having problems with how it feels to be home when youre out working. Sometimes the person at home feels like they are missing out with such an isolated role. Maybe he needs to get a different job. You could ask him how he feels about his job/his role. The cooking thing is tough. It's a big job. Maybe you could do the grocery shopping. Who does these other household chores? Just cooking isnt that bad. Does it interfere with his work? Buck up, mister!