It sure does sound dismissive to me. I wonder if you could re-visit the comment when he seems more receptive to hearing how you feel about it? Do you think if you sat down and wrote out how you feel objectively and either read it to him or had him read it woud that help? Sometimes just heearing our partners voice automatically closes some people down. I wonder if he was able to digest what you fellt without you saying it if he would be more receptive?
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