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Old Oct 24, 2020, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
It sure does sound dismissive to me. I wonder if you could re-visit the comment when he seems more receptive to hearing how you feel about it? Do you think if you sat down and wrote out how you feel objectively and either read it to him or had him read it woud that help? Sometimes just heearing our partners voice automatically closes some people down. I wonder if he was able to digest what you fellt without you saying it if he would be more receptive?

@sarahsweets, thanks.

I expressed this morning over text to him (just now) that it made me feel like he could care less about me.

He called to talk about it and tells me how much he loves and adores me, he apologized again for his comment and told me he didn't mean it that way.

I still don't feel good.
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