It does sound unnecessarily rude. If he thought you are going to check up on him, he could just ask. Is he in general rude person? I am not particularly rude in general but sometimes stuff comes out of my mouth that I can’t even explain. But no you aren’t too sensitive. It’s rude. I think it’s good he apologized at least

Why was it important that his co worker is pretty? Why was that info conveyed to you and what’s the significance of it? Due to the nature of my husband career field he always works with 99% women. Some of them I’ve met because we do outings with his co workers but most of them I’ve never met. I have no idea how they look. I know which ones are crazy and which ones are lazy lol and which ones are hard working and reliable and good to work with because we talk about work. I’ve no idea how they look.

I’d probably be taken aback if my husband started describing their looks. Not like I’d think he cheat but why does he care how other women look? I work with several men and tell my husband about them but I never described if they are handsome, I’d not even notice probably. What’s up with that? This kind of stuff contributes to your trust issues with him. He makes it worse with these comments

Fingers crossed about job. If team liked you, it’s a good sign