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Originally Posted by divine1966
It does sound unnecessarily rude. If he thought you are going to check up on him, he could just ask. Is he in general rude person? I am not particularly rude in general but sometimes stuff comes out of my mouth that I can’t even explain. But no you aren’t too sensitive. It’s rude. I think it’s good he apologized at least
Why was it important that his co worker is pretty? Why was that info conveyed to you and what’s the significance of it? Due to the nature of my husband career field he always works with 99% women. Some of them I’ve met because we do outings with his co workers but most of them I’ve never met. I have no idea how they look. I know which ones are crazy and which ones are lazy lol and which ones are hard working and reliable and good to work with because we talk about work. I’ve no idea how they look.
I’d probably be taken aback if my husband started describing their looks. Not like I’d think he cheat but why does he care how other women look? I work with several men and tell my husband about them but I never described if they are handsome, I’d not even notice probably. What’s up with that? This kind of stuff contributes to your trust issues with him. He makes it worse with these comments
Fingers crossed about job. If team liked you, it’s a good sign
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I asked him point blank if his new female co-worker is pretty. I also said I hope he doesn't develop a crush on her. I believe he wanted to just be honest with me by telling me she is pretty, but that she is also heavy, which he doesn't find attractive.
When she first started working there, he made a point of telling me right off the bat that she was being annoying by talking far too much about all details of her life within the first two days. He said she is loud and annoying and talks too much. She was sharing her info with everyone there, not just him.
I believe he is trying instead to reassure me.
But yes, his comment last night was most rude and most unnecessary.
And thanks on the job. The team apparently really liked me. I just don't know how i feel about this company owner now and how he operates the business. It makes me feel wary of them, but I don't think I'm in a position to pick and choose..... I could be since I have four more months of unemployment, but I'm leaning now towards leaving my husband, and I want a job ASAP so I can figure this out.