When they ask questions I am always as honest as I can be. I am a bad liar. I have not always been forthcoming with information if they didn't ask. At one point longterm T and I discussed this. She didn't see it as lying. She saw it as that I wasnt able to or wasn't ready to deal with the situation. She trusted me enough to know when the time was right I would discuss it.

As far as breaking a promise, my Ts have not made me promise anything. They have only asked that I try.