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Originally Posted by MsLady
I think his rude comment stemmed from exactly what he said.. that you just wanted to check up on them. In this scenario, I can understand his frustration if he truly has no interest in this woman.
Yes, it was rude. I also think he's tired of the questioning.. and as I've said already, he's dug a hole for himself because now, even if he's telling you the truth, you're not confident in him. He's lost credibility. Too bad for him, though.. he needs to take this piece as part of the puzzle, due to his own actions.
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Thanks, MsLady. He IS tired of the questioning, and I've agreed to let up. He has lost some credibility though and that's where it gets really tough for me.
I am really hoping a good therapist can help us navigate through this issue, along with all other issues we face.
I have contacted about ten therapists and only heard back from the one who told me to leave him on a voicemail because I had mentioned abuse. That really wasn't helpful.