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Originally Posted by KBMK
I hope you get into therapy, and it clears things up. It just all sounds so familiar to me, and couples therapy resulted in what you just described, my husband saying "did you have fun complaining about me", and "if I'm such a terrible person why don't you just leave me"...me me me
And the violence really did shock me. It was something I would never have expected. I just hope you stay safe  |
Eek - so sorry to hear you dealt with that.
I will stay safe, thanks.
I want to be careful of how I word things with the therapist when we get there. I want to be very deliberate and also acknowledge all the positive progress he's made. I don't plan on going to unload with only complaints - especially in knowing how he may react to that. He needs the positive reinforcement too.