I have several worries with my husband at this point. It's very possible I chose the wrong man to marry. I've made two other big romantic mistakes in my life - this could be my third.

Just spoke with my father who is a psych doc. He said that this is about control over me.

It was also clear to me this morning that my husband did not like that I was immersed in my computer and was trying to demand my attention, even though he was watching a movie he knows I have NO interest in, and he was also busy playing his game. He demands and needs my attention a lot of the time. Like a true narcissist.

My father suggested avoiding any hot button topics until we get to therapy together.

Now my husband is lying down in bed sleeping. This is what he does when things get tough.