If I get this job, It really could be a matter of weeks before I say I am divorcing him again. That is how I feel RIGHT NOW. I am fed up.

His comment this morning sent me right back to feeling like divorce is the only answer. By telling me it's a "joke", it absolves him of all responsibility and ownership. When he said he was gaining pleasure out of seeing me get pissed off? I believe it to actually be TRUE and not a joke. Who jokes like that? But then he says it was just in jest, so he absolves himself of all responsibility that way.