Hi earthmama! Thanks for the encouragement. Now you've hit the nail on the head wherein lies the problem. My therapist does NOT have time to see us ( there's kinda more than one of ME) more than twice a month. She don't have time to return phone calls or answer emails either - when she does it can be up to a week later. She's really nice, supportive, etc. but I dunno.................I've started searching for a new therapist after the response I got to an email we sent her. Not GOOD ......If I actually get blessed enough to find one, how do I tell her? I wish I knew what the ethical way is to leave a therapist because I don't wanna step on anybody's toes here.Don't know how to do this??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!