I don't know how to even behave towards him right now. I am angry. Yes, it was an abuse tactic, so clearly, I am still being abused.

I have said that if he continues to abuse me, that I am leaving him. I feel I have no choice now but to divorce him.

Yet, how do I even behave towards him right now? I feel like withdrawing completely from him, being cold towards him and not even engaging with him with any niceties. F him.