Yes I can sense by how you share that you are trying to analyze what you are dealing with before you act. This tends to be a skill a mother develops as she deals with all the different challenges she faces raising children and running the home.

I don’t want to feed your emotions as you already have enough of them to deal with. This is something you were bound to figure out.

It doesn’t matter how unhappy your husband was either he made choices and there are consequences for his choices. He did this to himself he made choices that Will affect his life and he can’t just walk away from his responsibilities. Also he has responsibilities as a parent. His choice means he will face consequences from how this affects his children too.