Never been married but have dated plenty of narcissists.

Stop comparing yourself to your husband via his income. You have a work history, correct? Start sending out your resume (do not tell your husband this) to places; join temp agencies; substitute teach; work as a PCA (personal care attendant, there is an online certification course for that does not cost much).

Then, reach out to womens shelters if you think your husband will get violent with you once you decide to leave him.

You can go to these shelters with your daughter and they will protect you and help you with resources. The room is like a dorm room so its not like you're in slumsville either. Its like a hotel for women and children who are battered or abused (emotionally and physically).

Every city in the U.S. has these shelters. Or, look for a roommate situation with family who live outside of your city but in your same state (if you take your daughter out of state, your husband will sue you for custody no doubt).


In MN there is People Serving People located in downtown Minneapolis (I see you are from MN). You could contact them for assistance. Their facility downtown is great. It has a cafeteria, it has housing assistance, and a daycare and school and computer lab too.

Most of all, consult a divorce attorney who specializes in narcissistic spouses. I actually googled it, and its a real thing. There are attorneys who deal with these types of toxic marriage dynamics.

You can rebuild your life once you divorce your husband. You can get alimony from him for your daughter's schooling and healthcare and expenses.

You can also apply for county assistance as a single mother and get emergency assistance money, food stamps, and help with rent and rent deposits on a place, as well as low incoming housing (there are waiting lists but you have to call your local housing agency to get that info).

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