Hi all! I'm very new to posting and joining forums. I'm not much of a joiner in general, but I feel that has to change. I just need to feel like someone understand with I'm going thru.

My husband of 23 years (together on and off for 33)has been acting strange lately. He's lost a lot of weight in the past year, and it seemed to change his personality. I had a bad feeling, so this past Tuesday I decided to confront him. Worst fear realized, he wants to separate for a month to think things through. I didn't see this coming, but as I have been more honest with myself, I haven't been happy either. I also got him to admit he's communicating with another woman he met on Facebook. Don't know how long this has been going on and didn't ask. He also said he hates his job among other things. If you looked up midlife crisis, his picture would be there down to even looking at sport cars!

I'm just so heartbroken and scared. I don't work for reasons and he makes all the money. I just don't have a good feeling about this, and frankly after all this I don't know if I want to reconnect. I guess I'm just looking for someplace to belong and talk to others who are going through the same thing. Trying to find people who understand.

Thanks