LOL, just sitting here thinking about the scene in Moon Struck where the mother's husband is out to lunch with his secret girlfriend. It does such a good job showing how this husband is literally enjoying how he can brag about how he sold the job he just got and this woman gave him just what he wanted, "oh you are so smart". Then he puffs up even more and presents her with a charm bracelet which she again replies with how wonderful he is. They did such a good job NAILING exactly what is wanted and happens.

I wanted you to understand the psychology of what you are going through. Your husband is in a state of confusion, it happens and often men don't quite understand it. Yet, it was so very well captured in that one Lunch scene in that movie. It was even captured by that couple that owned that market too. Her husband stood by the window looking at the Moon and his wife was in bed and looked at him and said, "you know, in that light you look just like you did when you were 25", he liked that and they had midnight snack together. After that, the man was SO HAPPY, something was rekindled in him. And he sang "Isn't it Romantic".