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Originally Posted by Julielynn1990
This is all still so new. We both have always gone to all his games. My son would be crushed if one of us stayed home just to avoid each other. I'm doing it for my kid. Its just the anticipation of it all. Besides...Ill be damned if he get all the fun while I stay at home. I plan to just say hi and avoid when possible. I hope it will get easier with time. Good news... no games for a week
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I understand doing things for kids. I totally get it. And I meant that you’ll do it for the kids, so they could bond with their dad.
Also it sounds a bit extreme teenager being crushed over one parent not showing up to a game. Is he very fragile? Do you guys never get sick or have to work late? That’s unusual. Is there some fun thing you could do with your other kid?
It doesn’t sound very healthy that you don’t want your husband to have fun with his kids without you present. As bad as he is as a husband it’s ok for him to
have fun with kids and it’s good for kids too and it’s ok for you to let them have that. Even in the most wonderful family it’s healthy for kids to hang out with one parent at times.
But I get that it’s hard for you now to figure out what’s right. It’s going to take time