(Krazibean)

I'm sorry you are having such a difficult time. i have had several conflicts with T that were extremely difficult and even felt like they were "relationship enders." However, these ruptures turned out to be the source of tremendous growth and personal insight for me.

I urge you to try and stick it out. Try and talk through the problems with T OR agree to put them aside.

I remember once when T and I were fighting and I walked into session and said, "I just need to experience us right now, here, in this room." It was one of the best sessions I have had.

I know it's hard to withstand the bad feelings but you don't have to "give in" and you don't have to quit. You can keep going even if you two don't agree on every single issue.

Peace