i COMPLETELY agree with @sarahsweets! It does seem like his mother doesn't respect you. Definitely sounds like personal issues. I am Sorry for her, of course, but she does need to work on them by herself and it is not fair that she'd bring down your relationship because of this. Definitely make your voice heard. If he can't realize what is happening, then i am not sure if this relationship is a good IDEA! SEnding many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @Nkst, Your Family, Your FriEnds, Your BoyFriEnd and ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!