Well... last night went better than expected. I was civil with husband and actually did quite a bit of socializing. I first for me. I ended up talking with one of my sons coaches for a bit during the game. It was quite eye opening. Myself and this guy have always had a fun and sibling like relationship...we like to give each other crap. Well, long story short, he guessed husband and I were having problems. Asked me flat out. He very close to my son so he seemed concern about him and frankly me also. I told him yes , but I didn't tell him everything. I did tell him quite a bit. He then proceeded to tell me his past troubles he had in his marriage(current wife who I know and like). They both cheated on each other years ago. He just told me from experience to take things slow and that I'm not alone. Husband went to party over weekend that I was invited to also but didn't go for reasons. Coach said husband was off and acting like" a ****" to him. He knew it wasn't him personally but something else. He just kinda pieced it all together. Husband came up and ask what we were talking about. Said team drama. NO lie... we did talk about it too. I cant believe he had the nerve to ask me. Wasn't mean of anything...just weird.

Thanks for letting me vent