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Nkst · Oct 27, 2020, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky

i COMPLETELY agree with @sarahsweets! It does seem like his mother doesn't respect you. Definitely sounds like personal issues. I am Sorry for her, of course, but she does need to work on them by herself and it is not fair that she'd bring down your relationship because of this. Definitely make your voice heard. If he can't realize what is happening, then i am not sure if this relationship is a good IDEA!

SEnding many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @Nkst, Your Family, Your FriEnds, Your BoyFriEnd and ALL of Your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!

Thank you! I appreciate your kind words and encouragement to make a healthy move. I am so hopeful that my fiancé can start setting boundaries without my push. This dynamic has been extremely difficult and frustrating. I’m hanging on to hope, but I’m not sure I can do this for much longer. My poor fiancé, he feels so stuck in the middle. This is all he knows of his mom and he doesn’t want to see her in a negative light, so of course he defends her.