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Old Oct 27, 2020, 11:07 AM
Nkst Nkst is offline
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
I read through most of your post about your boyfriend's mother and all I can say is OMG this woman is a total nightmare and control freak. She is also demanding her son be her codependant and make sure she comes first no matter what. If you ever got married this woman would be a MIL nightmare. No wonder her husband left her. Not only does she not respect you but she doesn't respect her own son either.
I agree! I feel so lost. Here I am, completely smitten over my fiancé. I’ve been in co dependent relationships in my past and for once I am actually in love with someone, truly. My fiancé is perfect for me... without his mom in the mix. It’s complicated and so hard to detach to someone I actually want to be with. I’m hanging onto hope that our recent visits to couples counseling will help guide him in the right direction. Not only do him and I deserve health, but he does too. His mother is terrible towards him and he continues to cater too or wanting to cater to her needs. It’s really sad.
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Open Eyes