Dear Faithful1989,

I am so very sorry you are in this situation. It is also heartbreaking what is happening to your fiancé. I am not a physician or medical professional, but perhaps it would be helpful if your fiancé saw a licensed doctor. Sometimes there are organic factors than can cause or contribute to symptoms like the ones you described and only a licensed physician can diagnose, treat or rule those out as causal or contributory factors. I am so sorry I cannot be more helpful to you. Hopefully others here will have better words for you than my poor words. There are many wise people here on the Forums and I hope they see and respond to your post. You sound like a wonderful person and I hope things resolve themselves in the best possible way for both of you.

Sincerely yours, Yao Wen