What type of people do you hang out with? I've never heard people saying this. It's one thing to say, "Family is family and we should love them, regardless," (unless abuse is an issue). But it's up to our own intuition, personal experiences, and personality type, who we feel comfortable in confiding in. Our lives is not an open book. We are entitled to have privacy, if we choose so.

I'm not suggesting to exclude anyone. We can be friendly, supportive, kind, and giving. But we are not obliged to do anything that makes us uncomfortable.