Actually, I have dropped T's by phone call, by snail mail and by various other ways.

This T is not meeting your needs. If she said that she can not, move on. If you feel you need another session because YOU feel you need it, then go. Otherwise, call her and tell her that she is not meeting your needs and thank you.

Why waste the money?

Anyway, it is normal to feel scared looking for a new T. Everytime I move, it is hard. It takes forever and it is heartbreaking at time. But it is normal. Hang in there.