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Soliaree said:
I'm not sure about a diagnosis, but I'm really interested in finding out more about why many of us are intolerant of other's anger. I haven't found much information on it. Good luck to you!
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I am guessing that it has to do with our early experiences where anger = violence or anger = pain/abandoment.
Since in our "minds" these are equated, when someone gets angry at us, we think we are going to get hurt or left.
While intellectually it seems obvious, feeling wise it is not.
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