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Originally Posted by MsLady
I think in this situation, it was about sharing the responsibilities rather than not needing the help. When we work as a team, we need to consider others and include them in the process so they are being used as an equal within the team. So, I agree, it would have been rude to say no thanks, if this couple were looking to be of use within this organization.
When it's more about personal boundaries, yes, "help" isn't always warranted. Sometimes that help is mistaken for someone's "impatience" or a self-serving need to look "good" in the eyes of an audience. I'm sure I could add many reasons to this list.
It's about balance. Knowing when it's appropriate to receive the help (without taking it as a personal hit) and when to set a healthy boundary.
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In this case, it wasn't work related or anything professional. It was more of a social thing and the two people who asked weren't even feeling well too. There was no need to have them help if it wasn't needed especially since everything was pretty much cleaned up. And yeah I agree when it comes to personal boundaries, help isn't always warranted. I've seen people and even know some who pretend to be helpful but in reality, they are boosting their own ego and making themselves look better to gain attention.