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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I think my husband may be an abusive narcissist.
I am seeing a LOT of symptoms and signs:
- He explodes whenever he is questioned or whenever I have confronted him
- He needs constant attention from me and praise
- He is very self centered: it's always about HIM, what HE wants and what HE needs
- He is very arrogant and full of himself: he has an inflated EGO and an inflated sense of self importance
- He is delusional: he thinks his father is a "great" man despite being abusive, sexist and racist
- He thinks HE's the most wonderful and loving person, despite the abuse that I've confronted him with
- He is quick to screw friends over and without remorse: I've witnessed him treating others in an exploitative manner
- He doesn't show much empathy when I am going through turmoil and upset
- He is a liar yet demands that I implicitly trust him despite several occasions of dishonesty - he defends his so-called high level of "integrity" by yelling at me, acting as though he has always been honest with me when I keep catching him in lies, deceit and contradictions
- And now he is a thief
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Sounds like a psychopathic narcissist. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. He sounds truly awful. He will never change.