You are absolutely correct again. I'm just happy that he's making the effort finally. Its funny... our youngest was diagnosed with ADHD in 1st grade. I felt like he had it much earlier, and husband fought me on that too for a bit. He finally agreed when in Kindergarten youngest yelled out "I cant think! My brain is fuzzy!" It just seems like he doesn't want to deal with the realities of raising kids sometimes, but he has made progress thank goodness. I guess husband just has some growing up to do. Better late than never