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Old Oct 30, 2020, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
It happened to my sister in her first marriage. He had done things she didn’t know about, and she was responsible for the payments, when they divorced. That’s when she found out.

I understand you feel different about this than I do.

I’ve seen too many people get burned and won’t tolerate it happening to me. It’s not paranoia.
I understand and can appreciate that. I am not going to do a credit check, and I am choosing not to worry about such things right now. Please let's just drop it for now ok? I do appreciate the concerns, but I have far too much on my plate to worry about. I have no job, no income, I am depressed and anxious as all hell, I need a new therapist and I need to apply for jobs again. I just got rejected for a job that I thought I had in the bag. I am freaking out already. If he's done something that i don't know about, I will get a lawyer and will fight him on it.
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