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Take your time with relationships. There's no rush.
I think we learn how to behave in certain situations from our parents and when we don't have a good example then I think we'd be pretty apprehensive about having our own relationships. So I can certainly understand why you're apprehensive, along with the experience you had when you were younger.
It sounds a little like you lack the confidence to put action into your thoughts. Don't take that the wrong way but how it sounds to me is that you've got the thinking going on and you shy away from acting on them. I have to admit...I do that too. Usually if I wanna say something to someone or it would create some sort of conflict then I don't act on my thoughts.
Hang in there.
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