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Originally Posted by eskielover
In that case I would have added to my "no thank you" that I was almost finished anyway & was just wrapping it up.
Yes, I have had offers to help unload my truck when I bring home my 50lb bags of feed for my horse. Seriously, I unload it when it is convenient for me.....I don't want to call for help & wait.
However I do know my limits & I definitely need help with the 80lb bales of hay. When they were smaller (50lb) I could unload & stack them myself. Also after oral surgery it was nice to have the help so I could just sleep & recover.
I have helped many people but I always ask if I can help first but most of the time I have a sense they could use help before I ask.
However when I have been the first person at an accident I don't ask I just get the needed help called & handle what is needed.
Different situations regarding need for help should be assessed individually
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Yep I totally agree with you.