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Old Oct 30, 2020, 07:54 AM
Anonymous42048
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Sorry if I come off as insensitive but I am. I am that kind of person. However, you’ve been sharing your thoughts and opinions when I was asking for advices. It helped me. Now I honestly want to help you and as a matter of fact (as you know) this problem is sort of in my “area of expertise”.

I can be the bad guy / immature / a… hole here but it’s not my intention to poke holes in your self esteem. It’s probably your husband’s goal. And that is my point. Narcissistic abuse is usually bombing your self esteem and is distorting your self image and I can see it.

You are not a narc… Christ, you’re nowhere near it. There is no reason for you to get mad at someone who says something so inaccurate, off topic or not, because it’s not you. Something tells me that you’ve been misunderstood and misinterpreted on daily basis by someone close to you (you know who) and this is why you react the way you do (it’s a symptom of abuse). I just want to point that out. I know it's important. I won't go further because I'd probably say something bad again.
Thanks for this!
MsLady