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Originally Posted by MsLady
The fears are valid and it's what draws us closer to our abusers, their love bombing ways, and false sense of security. We KNOW this but it flies out the window when we're faced with real life barriers, whether they're physical, emotional, or mental.
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Yes.... I understand this one. Mine is hugging me tightly at night while we sleep and it provides a false sense of love, comfort and safety. When in fact, I do not feel loved, I do not feel comforted, and I do not necessarily feel emotionally safe with him. And he's been love bombing me too a bit, calling me several times during the day to check up on me. I think he sense me pulling away a bit.
I wish there was an answer for the both of us; but there just isn't one immediately available. It's really hard and a HUGE challenge to be faced with.