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Originally Posted by MsLady
I am in my mid-40s and grew up with a mother who was emotionally unavailable, non-empathic, and very much disinterested.. unless she had a negative opinion about something we were doing. I concluded Narcissistic Personality Syndrome when I came across this checklist and scored her 29/33 points:
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This list describes my mother v well. When I started loosing weight she sabotaged, but also told me she would give me money for every stone I lost. It killed her that I wouldn't take her money, but she had no real generosity, just wanted credit for anything I achieved.
It sucks that I figured her out, but it took another eight years and a marriage to figure out that I was in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser. It's really insidious. Thanks for this thread @
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