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Old Oct 30, 2020, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted by MsLady View Post
That's unfortunate since you were visibly upset about that job.. and more so because it was a ticket way out. He's unaware about this, needless to say.

Empathy is a big deal. If there's no empathy in a relationship, it's not going to last.
I remember one night a year ago I was extremely anxious as we drove into town. I was anxious over my work. He showed little empathy then too. I’ve learned to come here instead and lean on my friends vs on him for any emotional support.
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