At the beginning though, he was open to us living together without his mom. On the second or third date, he mentioned he wants his mother in/nearby when we have kids though. He works in a city which is next to the state his mom and I live in. Before the pandemic hit, he was looking at apartments for us, which would be in my state but close to his city. When his apartment lease expired and the pandemic hit, he moved in back home. He has a good job and his mom is healthy so I assume he moved back not out of necessity, but because he wants to be there. He told me he hasn’t been back home for 22 years and he’s really appreciative of being back home with his mom. Seems the pandemic did him a favor but not for me.