Once again I think you're right. We haven't done much for just us in a long time. That's one of things I plan to discuss at Our Talk. i think I was sooo busy with kids and my own feelings of depression that I missed the signs. I just wish we could talk now. I'm not going to push him however. I'm giving him his month. I think I need it too to work out my issues. I think you're right about the other woman. I don't know exactly how far its gone. She may have been an ear. I'm trying to not put too much emphasis on that. He wants to communicate, he's not abusive, and for that im thankful. Things could be a lot worse.

I cant thank you enough for you help in this situation. Your advice has become invaluable to me! Also your words have put a lot of things for me into perspective.