Oh my. Snuggling supposed to be just a natural thing but if you are forced to snuggle for a specific duration of time, then it’s about control. Not love.

Save this as another example of abuse that you could bring with your therapist and if you ever need to bring it up in divorce. Holding someone in bed or physically holding them against their will is abuse. Not saying you should do anything about it now but save it for future reference.

And I had a thought, what if you contacted that place of employment that originally considered you for a different job and ask if other positions are available? What if they still need you but for a different position that their boss was talking about? Kind of like you gave it more thought and would be interested in trying...