I agree with what has been said about your parents not knowing that they are doing a harm to yourself. Don’t be hard on them. I’m sure they want the best for you and they are concerned.
What happen is that very few in this society are ready to change and admit that a kid, a son or a daughter are singular persons, over being the son of or being the daughter of. Each of them unique, different are valuable themselves.
It’s a different conception that still is gonna get a time to get.
I also was raised as you. Your parents probably think that the way to provide the best future for you is to push you like they are doing.
Said that, I do totally understand how you feel. You are very precious, you know it? No matter how long it takes you to achieve a certain goal. What matter is what you want to achieve. You are free and unique and this is the most important.
I’m sure if you follow your nature and fight for what you want you are gonna get it faster than anything because it’s what you want.
Your parents are subjects of lots of affection but you have to find your own way.
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Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits.
Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance.
Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON)
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