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Old Oct 31, 2020, 11:39 PM
AZ Dad 1979 AZ Dad 1979 is offline
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If you would have asked me a year ago I would have said it is possible. My wife and I met in high school. Only together in every way for 25 years. I passed on any temptation of affairs. I loved her more deeply than anyone could. I was dedicated until the end of time. Then a year ago I found out she had been having an affair off and on for a year and a half. 4 kids, 25 years and my undying love, and in return I got cheated on and now agonize over the fact that the one person I gave my whole self to stopped doing the same to me. I love everyday with regret that I can longer have that rare thing we shared. I’ve given it a year of counseling, devotional, church classes... I still hurt so much and don’t feel I can go on. So I’d say you should hope for it and pray for it, but I was so sure it would never happen to me, but an affair did and now the love isn’t everlasting the way it should be.