I am sorry. It must be very painful. So he wasn’t just making innocent mistake texting other women and you now must forgive him for the sake of your children. He actively sleeps with other woman this whole year. You know of one woman, could be more. But one is enough.

Have you had sex with him since he started cheating? I urge you to see a doctor and do full STD panel. He also endangered you by sleeping around in the middle of pandemics.

It’s also possible he slept with other women here and there over the years. Cheaters usually don’t just do it once, it just came out once because he now decided to leave. It’s also obvious that he is still in a relationship with woman/women. That didn’t stop

He is happy that he doesn’t have to come home? And all he cares is if other people hate him? It’s ok to hurt his wife though. And who cares how she feels? Well sadly that’s your answer. I recommend talking to a lawyer ASAP. Of course it’s your decision what to do.